Option 9

_groomname_, do you now choose _bridename_ to be your wife, to share your life openly with her, to speak truthfully and lovingly to her, to accept her fully as she is and delight in who she is becoming, to respect her uniqueness, encourage her fulfillment, and compassionately support her through all the changes of your years together?

_groomname_: I do

_groomname_ please repeat after me.I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, _groomfullname_ take, _bridefullname_ to be my lawful wedded wife.

_bridename_, do you now choose _groomname_ to be your husband, to share your life openly with him, to speak truthfully and lovingly to him, to accept him fully as he is and delight in who he is becoming, to respect his uniqueness, encourage his fulfilment, and compassionately support him through all the changes of your years together?

_bridename_: I do

_bridename_ Please repeat after me.
I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, _bridefullname_ take, _groomfullname_to be my lawful wedded husband.