Option 2

Love is the passionate and abiding desire on the part of two people to produce together conditions under which each can be and spontaneously express, his real self; to produce together an intellectual soil and an emotional climate in which each can flourish, far superior to what either could achieve alone. 

_groomname_ please repeat after me I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, _groomfullname_ take, _bridefullname_ to be my lawful wedded wife.

_bridename_ I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, _bridefullname_ take, _groomfullname_ , to be my lawful wedded husband.