Option 6
_groomname_ Vows.
I, _groomname_ take you, _bridename_ to be my wife
I love you, not for what you are, but what I am, when I am with you.
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but what you are making of me.
I love you for the part of me that you bring out.
You have done it without a touch, without a word.
You have done it by being yourself, my companion and comforter, guide and friend, the one I love.
I promise freely from this day forward
To be worthy of your trust and deserving of your confidence;
To be generous with my time, my energy and my love;
To be patient with you and with myself,
To trust you;
To be devoted to you and our life together.
These things I pledge before you, our friends, and our family.
_bridename_ Vows.
I, _bridename_ take you, _groomname_ to be my husband
I love you, not for what you are, but what I am, when I am with you.
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but what you are making of me.
I love you for the part of me that you bring out.
You have done it without a touch, without a word.
You have done it by being yourself, my companion and comforter, guide and friend, the one I love.
I promise freely from this day forward
To be worthy of your trust and deserving of your confidence;
To be generous with my time, my energy and my love;
To be patient with you and with myself,
To trust you;
To be devoted to you and our life together.
These things I pledge before you, our friends, and our family.