OPTION4

Celebrant to _groomname_:

Do you _groomname_, take _bridename_ to be your lawful wedded wife, do you promise to love and respect her, be honest with her and stand by her through whatever may come, so long as you both shall live?

_groomname_:   I do

Celebrant to _bridename_:

Do you _bridename_, take _groomname_ to be your lawful wedded husband, do you promise to love and respect him, be honest with him and stand by him through whatever may come, so long as you both shall live?

_bridehname_: I do